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Dec 19, 2003

法事の都合

最近は法事の都合を遠方の親戚などや仕事の事も配慮し早めに執り行ったりするのは普通の事だと思うんだけど、うちのお寺さんはそれは絶対できないという。やるならやればいいけど、それが故人の供養になると思うのであれば、どうぞ自分たち抜きで勝手にどうぞというスタンス。

つるよさんの葬儀はふみえさんの時にとても良くしてもらったというのもあって、○○会館という、いわゆる葬儀屋さんでお世話になったんだけど、そのやり方自体が気に入らないというのか、しきたりと違うというので、会館でのお通夜と初七日は来て貰えなかった。
会館ですると遠方からの親戚のためにちょっとしたホテルなみの施設が整ってるので宿泊の心配もないし、至れり尽くせりで本当に助かるんだけれど、お寺の考えではお通夜は家でするものであってナンタラカンタラ。(枕経をあげてもらった後に色々と説明されてたんだけど、まだ動揺してたワタシは内容を覚えていない。)
遠方の親戚のために初七日も火葬が終わった後に続いてする事も多いそうなんだけど、そんなこと、もっての他って感じ。

四十九日まで、七日毎に生前の行いなどについての審判が下され、四十九日目に最後の審判が下るそうな。(あの世での場所が決まるんだそうな)また、四十九日という日数はお釈迦様が修行に入り、悟りを開いたのが49日目だった事から重要視されてる数でもあるらしく、その数を繰り上げるとかナンだとか、生きてるものの都合で変える事はありえない話だそうな。(まぁ、ごもっともで)

死んでからの世界には都合もなにもなく、ひたすら仏になる旅を続けているのに、それをこっちの都合で供養の日取りを変えるなんて???七日毎の逮夜もそれぞれの出来事についての審判の日であり、その審判の日に遺族が供養する事は非常に重要であり.....って事なので、うちの四十九日はクリスマス・イブなんです。ハイ。

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