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Dec 17, 2003

片付けても片付けても片付けても........

片付かない祖母のお家。

今年の初めに亡くなった母方の祖母、ふみえさんは一人暮らしだった。
老人大学へ行ったりもして友達も多く、趣味も多い人だったのでとにかく色んなモノが家に溢れてる。
押し絵につまみ絵、手鞠が主なんだけれど、作品の数もすごいけど未完成品や材料も一杯。それ以外に編み物やら鞄作りやら人形作り、本当に雑多な手芸用品がたーーーーーくさん!驚くほど、あちこちから出てくる。
「これは一体ナニ?」「ナニに使うもの?」「こんなにたくさん......うわっ、こっちにもある!」

ちょこちょこと母と叔母達(母の妹)で形見分けの整理をしてはいたけれど、一周忌が終わるまではあまり家を触らずに置いておきたいという母の願いもあり、見た目は一体どこを片付けてたの??というような感じ。(^^;
戦争で何もかも焼けてしまった体験のある祖母は(母もだけど)何でも大事に取っておくタイプ。
一周忌終わってからちょっと改装する事になってるので、とにかく片付けないといけないんだけど、ほんっとにまったくもって片付かない。。。。。

色々片付けながら思うに、私の「もちもの」も良い勝負でかなりある。
私は生地が好きで気持ちは「アレも縫いたい、コレも作りたい。あんな事もしてみたい!」で、作る時間もあまりなくて作ってないのに欲しい生地をみつけると買うし、ずいぶん前の生地でも「いつか使うかも」で溜まっていく。
以前勤めていた会社から棚卸し等の時に持って帰ってきた生地や付属(ボタン、リボン、ワッペン、ネームなどなど)も山盛り。それでも何かの折りにかなり友達なんかに分けてしまったけれど、それでも段ボールに何箱あるんでしょうって感じ。

本もそう。読んでないのに本屋で読みたい本が見つかると買ってしまう。
読んでないもんだから同じ本を買ってしまう事もしょっちゅう。


他のモノでも「使うかも」「かも」「かもかも」で捨てない方。
ボビィ達のオモチャでも壊れてても「これで良く遊んでたわー」なんて思うと捨てられなかったり.............。

対照的なのが先月亡くなった父方の祖母、つるよさん。
なんでもスッパリ捨てるかあげるかしてしまう人で、お金もなーーーーーーんにも残さず逝きました。(笑)
ふみえさんが母達三姉妹に迷惑をかけたくないと思い、自分の葬儀費用をきっちり残していたのとは反対に、つるよさんは「長男(父)たるもの母親の面倒を見て当たり前」な考えだったらしく、恩給も年金も入ってくるお金は小銭に至るまで自分の子供や孫(私達)に分け与える人だった。

なのでつるよさんの部屋一部屋分だけ。(私達と一緒に暮らしていたというのもあるけど)

で、そのつるよさんの持ち物で使えそうなものは私と叔母達で分けたんだけど、娘になる叔母は「亡くなった人の持ち物を持ってると迎えに来そうな気がする」とか言うので、実用的なもの以外あまり欲しくないという。他の叔母は母を含め、嫁の立場なのでいらない物を捨てる事に対して積極的。

私は両親が共働きだった事もあり、両親より長く一緒に過ごしてきた祖母のものはナカナカ捨てる事ができなくて、みんなが「捨てようか?」というと「あ、じゃぁ、私が使う」とまたまたドッサリ荷物が増えるハメに。(^^;
古いタンスも「色塗り替えて使う」って言ってしまったし。(ふみえさん宅にもそういうタンスが2つ。下駄箱が1つ。)
ホントに塗り替えて使えるようにできるんかな.....>>> ワタシ。

1月の終わりからリフォームがたぶん、始まり、その一ヶ月後には巨大な荷物を整理してふみえさん宅へお引っ越しする私。
こんな私が飼い主であるボビィ達の荷物も結構あったりして。(笑)
ふみえさん宅の片付けもさる事ながら、自分の荷物の整理を考えるとクラクラする。

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ぅ~~ん、私も捨てられない人です...
いつか、いつかって、ん十年も前のモノがてんこ盛り。
滅茶苦茶悩んで決心してほかしたら、
その後すぐにそれが必要になったり・・・
スパッと物を捨てられる潔い人になってみたいような、なりたくないような。

それにしても、Check&Stripeの布は買えないね~~
いつも売切れだあー。

Posted by: クララまま | Dec 18, 2003 at 10:30 AM

クララままもー?
わざわざ買うとけっこうするし、ココはいらないけどこの部分は使えそうだし...なんて調子でどんどん捨てられない物が溜まっていく...。

捨てられる人になってみたいような、なりたくないような気持ち、分かるーーー。(笑)

check&stripeの生地、新着メールが来て半日も経ってたらナイね。まったく。30分くらいでも売り切れるものは売り切れるし。

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